Day: July 25, 2017

Trust produces LOVE! If you don’t (or can’t) trust them, then examine why you’re STILL with them. Some people stay in bad relationships because of their fear of being alone, the sex, think they can change someone, feel that’s the best they can do or their wrong understanding of what LOVE REALLY is. No matter how you try to convince yourself, you (& those who really cares about you) know that you AIN’T happy! Even if you give them more sex, that will NOT make MORE love or trust towards them. It will only make you more FRUSTRATED & WASTE MORE TIME! AND DON’T TRY TO HOLD ON TO THEM UNTIL SOMEBODY BETTER COMES! That’s immature & unfair to you & the one you need to leave! Realize, dating is the time when you decide if that person is worth being in your life, if you’ll are compatible, are they committible, can you trust them with your heart or care of your heart, will they respect you/ your children, can you depend on them if you’re down or sick & are you willing to accept who they are. Don’t feel like you’re stuck or you have to stay in an unhealthy relationship! Dating is NOT marriage! You can leave ANYTIME you want! Ask God to help YOU to work on the relationship with Him 1st! Allow God to heal anything wounds that you may have, help you to forgive yourself of past (or current mistakes) & forgive those who had hurt you! It’s OK to be single & get yourself together! Being single is NOT punishment but a time of PREPARATION for the RIGHT PERSON!
PLEASE take this post SERIOUSLY BEFORE you make a BIG mistake & have a lifetime of REGRETS! Be blessed!
Brother Prater