Day: September 22, 2016

If you’re thinking about giving your ex another chance, here are some things to consider before you make your decision: Analysis why you all broke up in the 1st place! Are you considering getting back with them because they’re worth it or because you don’t want to be alone? What did they do during the breakup? Were they wasteful during the breakup or getting help to improve themselves? Would you be able to TRULY trust them if you all were to get back together? Remember,  just because you forgave them DOES NOT mean you have to prove it by being back with them! How do you feel thinking about getting back with them? Do you feel an uneasiness in your stomach (or nerves) or peaceful? Are you in love with who they are or who you think you want them to be or maybe the idea of just having “somebody”? What would be the consequences of you giving them your heart AGAIN? Would they respect your heart, words, mind & feelings? Have you carefully processed them out of your system to make a wise decision? Count up the pros & cons of being with them. If or when you talk with them, do LESS talking & MORE listening & observing! Don’t tell them what kind of person you need or looking for in your life! A person who is truly genuine will know already! Plus, the wrong person may “pretend” to be that ideal person just to dissapoint you. When you’re finished analysing, PRAY & DON’T making a decision until God gives you the answers! God does not want you to be confused, or second guessing yourself. He will reveal the motives & outcome for every situation! If you consult God, He will give you a peace about the decision so you won’t have any regrets. Remember this, God is giving YOU the choice to make YOUR own decision!