No longer deal with the mess, drama or chaos of others when you don’t have any in your OWN life. I know you like to help folks but you’re being used!!! Listen, some folks go to you because they know you’ll do the work to fix THEIR problem & won’t require them to help at all. As long as you keep coming to the rescue, they will continue to USE YOU! You have to learn to love a person enough to let them bump their own head in life, learn from their OWN mistakes & clean up their OWN mess! Stop stressing & making yourself sick when people like the mess & drama they’re in. When they TRULY get tire of it, they will come to you. But until then, you going to them AIN’T helping, you’re only irritating them & prolonging them from seeing the problem FOR THEMSELVES! Sometimes the ONLY help you need to give a person is YOUR PRAYERS! Ask God to help you to love them from afar & close your eyes in what you don’t need to see so you won’t interfere anymore! God will give you peace even during this process!
