In a marriage, it’s easy to do things for your spouse when they were appreciative or in good times. But your true character is tested or revealed when they are NOT appreciative, when they don’t say thank you, etc. Don’t be discouraged or change your character. Realize that you are not responsible for their response. If you made them a hotdog & they threw it on the ground, don’t sweat that. When they start having some missed meal crap & get hungry, they’ll think about that hotdog they threw on the ground. See, you don’t allow their foolish or childish behavior to rub off on you. Somebody has to be the adult in the marriage. Know that GOD wants to come to the rescue in your situation on your behave but YOUR reaction depends upon it. Take courage that GOD will bless you because you did the right thing (regardless of the outcome). Your efforts may appear to be a waste or useless, but know that ALL will come to light in the RIGHT time! Don’t stop what you’re doing. Rely on GOD’s POWER & WORD to strengthen you. HE will not let you down!
